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Another chat that started out nice and normal, and veered suddenly. And, yet another definite controller and probable abuser who thinks he can just "become a dom" and that shit will all be fine. His nick was Mr[country abbreviation]. I fixed it for correct labelling (and rules).

(My commentary like this)
Commentary = stuff I added for you, the readers, rather than part of the original message exchange.

Session Start: Thu Sep 26 07:41:12 2024

2024.09.26, 07:41:12 <MrRedFlags> hello khaosity

2024.09.26, 07:41:23 <khaosity> Good morning, Sir.

2024.09.26, 07:41:30 <MrRedFlags> how are you?

2024.09.26, 07:41:50 <khaosity> Undercaffeinated.

2024.09.26, 07:42:05 <MrRedFlags> what coffee do you drink?

2024.09.26, 07:44:05 <khaosity> Right now, am having a dark, Brazillian roast, 8 shot caramel hazelnut brûlée latte. Soon as that's done, I'll switch to drop, which is a medium dark, Mexican French roast.

2024.09.26, 07:44:11 <khaosity> drip*

2024.09.26, 07:44:27 <MrRedFlags> damn you really know your coffee stuff

2024.09.26, 07:45:09 <khaosity> I am a cigar and coffee afficionada.

2024.09.26, 07:45:26 <MrRedFlags> maybe you could teach me lol

2024.09.26, 07:45:51 <khaosity> Perhaps.

2024.09.26, 07:46:03 <MrRedFlags> i'm basic coldbrew drinker

2024.09.26, 07:46:49 <khaosity> I've had a couple cold brews, and they are nice, but take far too much coffee and time to prepare, especially considering the amount I consume.

2024.09.26, 07:47:04 <MrRedFlags> oh i buy mine from the local coffee shop

2024.09.26, 07:47:41 <khaosity> It takes about a pound of grounds to make one jug, which is a little less than a 12 cup pot's worth.

2024.09.26, 07:47:47 <khaosity> You mean by the cup?

2024.09.26, 07:48:10 <MrRedFlags> yeah i just buy it from my local shop with some almond milk

2024.09.26, 07:48:24 <MrRedFlags> 750ml

2024.09.26, 07:49:06 <khaosity> Ahh. I wouldn't be able to afford that. Besides, I make it better at home anyway.

2024.09.26, 07:49:15 <MrRedFlags> fair enough

2024.09.26, 07:51:18 <MrRedFlags> how long have you been feeling like you were property?

(Annnnnnd there it is. So much for the "nice, normal chat")

2024.09.26, 07:56:50 <khaosity> I do not feel like I am property. I WAS property for the better part of a decade, for about half of 2000, and then from 2003-2010. Now I am free, and seeking a dom, not a master.

2024.09.26, 07:57:22 <MrRedFlags> i'm here because i've got a very dominating and controlling personality which doesn't work in the vanilla world

(Danger Will Robinson! My arms are flailing wildly! AKA, this is code for, "I am a controlling, potentially abusive ass and think slapping a 'dom' label on it will make it all OK")

2024.09.26, 08:02:09 <khaosity> What do you see as dominating and controlling?

2024.09.26, 08:02:31 <MrRedFlags> i'm really into being the main provider and the head of the household that does all repairs

(Uh huh...)

2024.09.26, 08:03:06 <khaosity> What if she is legit better at some of them?

2024.09.26, 08:03:24 <MrRedFlags> haha she can do repairs if she wants

2024.09.26, 08:03:31 <MrRedFlags> i'm too much of a control freak though

2024.09.26, 08:03:42 <MrRedFlags> it would make me micro manage

(Gee. Who would have guessed?)

2024.09.26, 08:04:22 <khaosity> That makes it sound like you are not able to control your own controlling behaviour.

2024.09.26, 08:04:32 <MrRedFlags> okay thanks for the lesson

(Oooh. Struck a nerve, did we?)

2024.09.26, 08:04:57 <khaosity> It was not a lesson. It was an observation, with an implied question.

2024.09.26, 08:05:04 <MrRedFlags> ok

2024.09.26, 08:17:25 <khaosity> So, no answer, 'eh? OK.

2024.09.26, 09:02:04* khaosity shrugs and wanders off.

(Figures.)

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