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Here, we have yet another dude expecting a stranger to become a personalised remediation system while still fundamentally objectifying, categorising, and thinking he can somehow master them. At this point, this combination has become a full-on archetype! He has been appropriately renamed, retaining only the "MASTER" claim, and the ALL_CAPS_WITH_UNDERSCORES, styling. Sadly, this has absolutely no chance whatsoever of outing him. Not sad because I want to out him, but sad because it is just so prevalent.

(My commentary like this)
Commentary = stuff I added for you, the readers, rather than part of the original message exchange.

MASTER_REMEDIAL_TRAINING_NEEDED
61M Dom
[city], Massachusetts

Hey

KhaosWolfKat
54 F Evolving
Marysville, Washington, United States

Greetings, Sir,

Well, if you want to have a conversation, or any kind of getting to know one another, it is going to take a lot more effort on your part than, "Hey".

I would suggest starting with reading my profile, or at LEAST the first paragraph, to see if there is any common ground on which to base a discussion, and going from there.

Cheers,
~ Khaos

MASTER_REMEDIAL_TRAINING_NEEDED
61M Dom
[city], Massachusetts

Thanks for putting that out there, bcos i've been very rusty in the dating world since my wife died 2years ago and i had to come back to the dating world when i already gave up on dating. I'm willing to learn again if u will teach me more. I read on your profile that u in Marysville Washington as i just moved here from [city]. Also saw that your role are submissive and bottom that u looking for a dominant and dynamic

(How very typical and expected.)

KhaosWolfKat
54 F Evolving
Marysville, Washington, United States

I didn't mean read the roles and checklist stuff to see if I tick the boxes for the type of female type item you want. I meant actually read the parts of it that I WROTE. The parts that talk about who I am as a person, what I like, what I am actually looking for on here beyond the clickable selections from drop down lists. MY words.

If you had done that even a tiny bit, you would have already known what was wrong with both your messages to me. I am not here to teach "u" to relate to women or anyone else. Attend some workshops or talk to a therapist.

A master is meant to be someone who has mastered themselves. If you can't even be trusted to take 5 minutes to read a basic introduction, some simple dos and don'ts, and some clearly stated boundaries, and then respect them, how could anyone trust you to be in CHARGE of them, and not violate their boundaries and potentially damage them?

Sheesh!
Not today!

(And when I went back to copy and paste it to post here...)

You can't respond to this conversation because **MASTER_REMEDIAL_TRAINING_NEEDED** changed their inbox privacy settings, you've blocked them, they've blocked you, or they've deactivated their account.

(I'm shocked - SHOCKED, I say!)

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