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Author:  KhaosWolfKat [ 07 Apr 2019, 19:10 ]
Post subject:  Can't follow directions!!
From FetLife

So, this is from a local guy, who I know personally and thought more highly of before this happened.
I put an ad up for a caregiver on a local, community based group on FetLife.
Right at the end of the qualifications and job description, was this:
Quote:
"If you are interested in the position, please send email to [email address] for additional information. FetLife mail is not the way to respond to this ad, and I will not consider applicants who disregard this."


I thought it was pretty clear. Apparently not. He identifies as a dom, and I have to wonder if, since he has seen me in submissive mode, he just assumes that he gets to be the boss.

(My commentary like this)
Commentary = stuff I added for you, the readers, rather than part of the original message exchange.


Can'tFollowDirections 55M
Seattle, Washington
written 1 day ago:
Subject
did you find your [employee type person]?

If not, i may be able to help you out. I recently went through the process for someone else, although they wound up having to move before I could begin and all was for naught.

Best,

[His name]


KhaosWolfKat 44F
Seattle, Washington
written about 22 hours ago:

No, I haven't yet, but I really need someone who will follow directions and do things the way I ask them to. That is a very important part of the job.

(HINT HINT, dude!!!)

Can'tFollowDirections 55M
Seattle, Washington
written about 20 hours ago:

I think I can do that for you. I've done this kind of work before in the past.

206-867-5309 - I can meet with you tomorrow morning or any other day this week.

(You think incorrectly! I guess I'll have to fucking spell it out for you.)

KhaosWolfKat 44F
Seattle, Washington
written about 20 hours ago:

I'm sorry, but I'm afraid you've already screened yourself out.

My posting said very specifically, in bold writing, to send an email and NOT to reply via FetLife mail.
It also said that no applicants who disregarded that request would be considered.

I have had far too many issues with people who say they will, but don't actually pay attention to what I say, and just do things the way they prefer to do them.

That is exactly what you already did, straight off the bat.

Thank you for your interest though.
~ Khaos.

(I think I was actually pretty polite, considering he barged into my Fet inbox, which I use for PERSONAL messages, not conducting business, directly disregarding my very specific instructions/request)

Can'tFollowDirections 55M
Seattle, Washington
new message
written about 15 hours ago:

lol! sure thing, pumpkin. good luck!

(THIS is where he really fucking pissed me off! Is it just me, or does this smack of, "You're the one being unreasonable and childish", and all around dismissiveness?)


KhaosWolfKat 44F
Seattle, Washington
new message
written less than a minute ago:

Thank you.
Please do not address me by pet names.

(Nevertheless, I responded politely. But what a fucking shit stain!)
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